My life would’ve been a mess had our paths not crossed and our fates not intertwined. Athavan and I got married when we were just 24 years old (young I know!) He had just graduated from doing his MBA and I was working at the bank as a Financial Services Rep (sounds fancy but not so much) My parents wanted us to get married as any tamil parents do as soon as you’re done school. They were getting tired of aunties calling home and saying, I seen your daughter at the movies, mall, RSM buying sarees 👀 Athavan’s parents on the other hand wanted us to wait a few years. They wanted him to get a proper job, help out with the family, take the role as the provider as his dad was close to retirement and his siblings were still in school. Fast forward the back and forth and we ended up getting married a few months after his graduation. We struggled financially as we had a very big lavish wedding (my doing - broke my parents wallets thank you amma and appa for always trying to make me happy and my husband’s), we were young and just starting our careers and our life together. I also went back to school to pursue a second degree in nursing (shout to all the nurses - one of the hardest jobs out there) so we were living on one income and trying to make ends meet. I then told him no babe, nursing isn’t for me. I can’t handle the stress of it- I want to pursue makeup artistry instead (Wish I had realized this before spending a hefty tuition fee for the entire year) So what does he do? He enrolled me in cosmetology school using his credit card because he always said, “do what makes you happy”. Even though we didn’t have much back then, we had each other and so proud of how far we’ve come since then as a couple and as individuals. No matter the battle you’re fighting in your life, always remember that this too shall pass and a bad day/hard times is never a bad life. #thankyouwaterloo#torontotowaterloo#loveofmylife#hubbybear#thestrugglewasreal#startedfromthebottom#teamworkmakesthedreamwork#marriageishardwork#fightforit#marriedforalmost7years#wewerekidsthen#timeflies#marriage#couple#tamil#alwaysastruggletakingpictures#heightdifference#tallguyandshortgirl
2 years ago
#TALLGUYANDSHORTGIRL baby i love uh mahn.... Me and uh make a perfect couple together😍
I want those memories back again forever...
Your my everything koko~ thanks for being by my side all this time, I can't believe ur leaving me now. it is too early, all the things we plan to do this year is not going to hppn but I'm rlly proud of u sweetheart~~ ur an amazing guy, I don't want to lose u n all but its for our future... even tho we're still in the same city but I won't see u everyday,which is rlly sad but we still going to talk n see each other but not as often... I'm going to miss u soo much. this hard for me n I know its harder for u but we got this~ I wish I cud spend my math and homeroom with u but... I guess it won't hppn... its gonna feel so empty without u but I know u always der with me rite~ we still going to talk like we usually did n ur goim to visit me ~~ I love u soo much n I'm going to miss u soo much . don't ever forget bout me n our memories okie~~ 1-4-3 #korisyia#korisyiaisofficial#boyfriend#tallguyandshortgirl#loveyou#143#missyou#firstlove#loveofmyheart
4 years ago
Happy Short Girl #nationalshortgirl#shortgirls#rule#tallguyandshortgirl