I KNOW YOU’VE GOT YOUR OWN GRAVEYARD OF GOOD IDEAS ☠️
Whether it's the program idea you convinced yourself no one would EVER "stoop" to buy from you 😕
The photo you were sure would get ridiculed right off your Insta feed.
Or the emails that you were POSITIVE would get an eye roll & unsubscribe from an industry super star.
Too many people sit there second-guessing and “I suck"ing on themselves. And meanwhile - the awesome sh*t they have to say gets stuffed down, torn apart, & stripped of all passion - probably never even seeing the light of day.
It's sad, y'all.
The fear of not being "perfect" is straight thievery.
➡️It robs you of a layer of excitement you could have for your work.
➡️It steals opportunities for making money, connecting with people, and growing your business.
I've heard from a LOT of people in my community that perfectionism is a big problem.
So I'm going deeper into it during a special 3-part live training series that's happening next week.
We'll be talking about the mindset behind creating a powerful message.
Overcoming perfectionism and showing up confidently will definitely be addressed.
You'll also learn about:
👉attracting perfect-fit clients who can actually "afford" your offers
👉using storytelling and different types of content to stand out & create a community of buyers
👉and building genuine relationships online so you can connect, collaborate, and sell beyond your posts
💥Grab your spot for FREE at the link in my profile.💥
And learn how to create Your (meaningful) Money-Making Message 💌
🙅♀️The question is never how to do this and that.⠀
The question is always why.
And the emotion behind your why is important.
Because the Universe always answers your questions.
If you ask why are you so unlikable or unlucky, the Universe will show you all the reasons.
And if you've a victim mindset, you're start believing you're cursed.⠀
🦸♀️So ask WHY from an empowered space.⠀
When you ask the Universe from this space, you're not taking things personally and therefore able to see the truth.
The truth hurts but it sets you free.
I wasn't happy in my marriage for a long time but didn't really took time to ask why.
And when I did see the truth, I had many emotions and I was angry at first and then I had to forgive.
So getting to the bottom of things requires honesty and courage.⠀
🤦♀️The ego will never allow you think it's your fault or problem.
When you let go of the old identity and energies, you'll make space for better things/people to show up.
The Universe is responding to your energies and what you believe you deserve.⠀
P.S. Want to rewire your unconscious mind?⠀
🧘♀️I've recorded a variety of meditations to help you reset and rewire your mind to attract the success you deserve.⠀
Click on my bio 👉@thewomanofinfluence to listen to them now.
It's free and no opt in required.
3 days ago
🧙♀️After we die, we meet up with our spirit guides aka guidance counsellor to do our life review.⠀
And then plan for the next adventure.⠀
So, all the souls who are here have volunteered to be part of this transition of a life time.⠀
⏳As time is evaporating and accelerating, that means we get to experience Instant Karma and Instant Manifestation.⠀
We no longer need 5 lifetimes to learn a particular lesson.⠀
🙏That means in simple words, we don't need to die so many times and come back so many times.
We don't need to go back and forth, unless you choose to, we can practically and literally do our life reviews while we're ALIVE.⠀
That's what I've been doing for the past few days.
Hence the silence.⠀
🤹♀️At every stage of your life, it requires a different version of you and therefore the decisions you make and desires you have will change.
We're in the 5D realm now so the 3D decisions and desires are now outdated.⠀
👣Don't hold on to them. Let them go.
It's OK to make another decision because you're no longer the same person.
You may feel very lost - as I am now. Because I'm starting from a brand new identity.⠀
There's a tendency to want to hold on to the past but you know you're no longer excited about it.⠀
💡Let it go. Make space for a higher level of ideas to show up.
What is done is already expired.
Have the courage to be creative and let your soul lead.
Allow yourself to be in the unknown.⠀
🤷♀️ "I don't know" may be a scary place but that's where all possibilities exist.
Sit with this let your soul inspire you to take inspired action.⠀
🧘♀️Conserve your energy for the great show that's coming up.⠀
TAKE IT SLOW.
The process of building is slow.
The issue with rushing this stage is that you will almost ALWAYS be let down.
Unfortunately, a lot of dreams, businesses, ideas… die because patience is lost too early on.
You upload 10 YouTube videos that don’t get more than 100 views, so you start slacking off.
You start a consulting business and get a bunch of no’s and give up.
You launch this amazing product but only sold a quarter of your inventory so you stop selling.
You start a blog and no one reads it so you stop writing.
But what if you knew that in a month, six months, a year… it was going to POP?
Would you give up so easily? Or would you press forward?
Patience will weed out ALL those who are doing it for clout or money versus passion & problem-solving.
It’s time to stop jumping to the results before working on the foundation.
Trying to charge “your worth” with no experience.
Spending no time doing market research or targeting your audience.
No efforts in developing something sound.
Before I officially launched Erin On Demand, I messaged several businesses in my personal network to do video and social media work for free. (SWIPE)
I just wanted the experience.
When I launched in 2018, my prices were dirt cheap because I needed to build PROOF that I can do this.
This foundational phase is so important because it builds humility, grit, skills, and persistence.
Get a grip on what type of value you TRULY provide right now, not what you THINK you can provide.
Go through the process and stop letting your ego get in the way of your destiny.
Time is money but it doesn’t always manifest as dollars in the beginning.
But I will say this…
When you have the end in mind and want to build a SUSTAINABLE business… no amount of time can get in the way of the vision you’re working to achieve.
Have patience and look at the bigger picture before you let another dream wither away.
Tag a friend who could use a little tough love!
There are no such things as business problems. There are only personal problems that show up in your business. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This was the biggest Aha moment in my business. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I used to have a NM business and was one of the top members of my team.
I was doing all the things - following all the activities, checking all the right boxes, but things weren't growing the way that I wanted them to. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
So, I was thinking maybe I’m not using the right email provider, maybe my opt-ins are not converting. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I was looking at all these external tactical things and wondering ‘what am I not doing that is causing this friction’?
One day I sat down with a coach and explained this to him. Then, he started to ask me about things in my life. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
During that period of my life, there were some challenging things going on in my personal life that were draining a lot of my energy. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
To which my coach replied: “ Until you resolve this personal stuff, nothing work in your business.”
I didn’t want to hear this. That was impossible.
This was my first insight into the fact that there's no such thing as business problems. They're just personal problems that show up in your business. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
There is no separation. You are everything. Your business comes from you. You are the energy. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
So I invite you to ask yourself, what is not working in my life and where else is this pattern showing up? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I have one 1:1 spot left before I book up through 2020. If you’re ready to take action, send me a DM to chat.
Is anyone else guilty of this? Put a 👍🏻 if you are!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Each time I come up against something new I need to do with my business - like raising a recurring invoice, or writing a contract, I spend SO long over-thinking how I should do it. Am I doing it right? Do I need a template? Do I need special software? Does everyone else know something that I don't know?! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
The answer tends to be NO - everyone is just out there winging it. There are no set "processes" and concrete ways of doing things. So just dive right in and give it your best guess!
Since having kids, my sense of responsibility for our planet has increased tremendously. We need to leave the planet in better shape for our kids, it's the least we can do. Here are a few ways you can make a difference, even if it's small:
🌍 Use less, recycle/resuse more - especially plastic! 🌍 Plant sustainable trees that fight climate change (like the "Elephant Food tree" I'm holding in the picture- check our stories for details)
🌍 Be aware of your carbon footprint: carpool and use public transport where possible
🌍 Use less water (check out our story highlights to find ways you can save water)
🌍 Shop local
🌍 Eat less meat - Meatless Mondays anyone?
What are some ways YOU are contributing to fight climate change? Comment below 👇🏼
NEW PODCAST 🚨
On today’s episode we have Oletilwe Mogashoa (@secretstosuccess_official). Oletilwe is a corporate queen who has carved a very successful path in corporate. She currently works as a Senior Business Development Manager. She is the founder of Owning it 2, a foundation that helps young people from disadvantaged backgrounds own their careers while they are still young. Oletilwe also founded Secrets To Success, an online TV show where successful career people share the secrets to their success. Definitely tune in to hear all about how she navigated her way through corporate. Link in bio..
"The most successful entrepreneurs know that optimistic is part of the job description" Caterina Fake