Nothing that I say is gospel, they're just different ideas according to my experience that may be resourceful to you. Here's the perspective that's resourceful for me when dealing with pain and anguish that I see my closed ones suffering from that I wish I could take away. So here it goes...
"Your vibe attracts your tribe". With that phrase, it becomes clear, how you think, what type of interests you got will certainly attract those kinds of people in your life. It's like if you got zero interest in someone, then there's no point of having a freindship with those guys. As a freind, you would like to have a certain kind of things that you want in your friend, and if they don't, you kind of stop hanging around or simply your frequency won't match with those people.
Freindships just happens, it's like sometimes you just find certain people who matches your requirement of interest and it fascinates you and you become freinds and then you hangout, share ideas and the bond gets strengthened. What I beleive is that freindship is more of mental phenomenon than of visuals. You may see a girl who seem cool but after like one or two conversations, you come to know what her brain looks like and if it doesn't seem to match your perception and idealogies, then you know what you got to do with this type of freindship. The solution is to get a new one.
In the nutshell : Freindship is just like an experiment that you try with different people, some results come positive, some don't. You cannot force freindship on someone who's not interested in you. But you must try to keep on finding people that matches your state of interest and being. And once you find them, stay close to them and keep strengthening your bond as they are good for you.
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