We promise to things that are difficult... not to things that are easy. I don’t promise to do my laundry or take the kids to school or eat lunch because those things aren’t hard for me to do. So when you vowed on your wedding day to love your spouse in good times and in bad times, in sickness and in health, when you’re rich or when you’re poor, you were promising to work hard at committing to CHOOSE love NO MATTER WHAT. It’s easy to love someone when things are going well, but it’s much harder to love someone when life is sucking!!! 😩 In the darkest of times, we’ve stuck it out and worked through it and we’ve been though a lot ($200k of debt, 3 job losses, the worst in-law issues 😩, infertility, autism diagnosis, ADHD, starting a business, selfishness, pride, sex issues...to name a few) So you have a choice, keep your vows and not give up when things get hard...really hard and come out stronger on the other side. Or you can choose comfort over courage and give up. 👉🏼 DISCLAIMER- we’re not talking about abuse and addiction and multiple affairs. #marriage365#ichooselove 📸 by @koriandjared
genau diesen Moment habe ich vor Jahren mal geträumt und jetzt ist er wahr geworden ❤️🥺 @the_yildirims#whendreamscometrue -
Tone is EVERYTHING. When you speak to your spouse, you need to evaluate what THEY’RE hearing vs. what you think you’re saying. Even if you choose the right words, if you use a tone that communicates disrespect or lack of care and concern... it completely invalidates the words you said. Don’t let that happen! Use your tone and body language to be warm and kind and loving and gentle. It is SO worth it. #marriage365#ichooselove
To have a supportive partner is EVERYTHING. 🌻 .
I just want to say: Thank you God for putting this man in my life. You push me to do better and be better every single day. You support me. You surround me with comfort. & I want to say thank you to those who show up for me everyday to show me you support me as well. It is very much appreciated. .
Who are you thankful for? Tag them in the comments below and show them some love! 👇🏼🧡
Happy FOURTH anniversary to my handsome husband! I’m constantly amazed by your accomplishments and hard work. I couldn’t have picked a better partner, lover, or daddy. I LOVE you with all my heart! #husband#anniversary#happywife
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Living in the peace of prosperity Glory to God🙌