No! — Sending the narc a letter or email detailing what he/she has done to you & how he/she has harmed you will not resolve anything. It might even make the narc feel proud of his or her abusive handiwork.
There is so much freedom & closure in acknowledging the reality that the narc is an emotionally-deranged toxic person who —while capable of bursts of positive, if manipulative, behaviour — ultimately just poisons the lives of those who have the misfortune of getting close to him or her. The narc’s toxicity will spread like a virus & when one victim fully catches on to what he/she’s dealing with, the narc will slither away and spill his/her toxicity onto yet another fresh target.
Chances are you once cared about the abuser and there’s nothing pleasant about now accepting that they are in fact so deranged that all they can ultimately do is bring lies, poison, chaos and psychological violence to the lives of those who initially trusted them and saw the (fake) good in them.
I struggled with this in the early stages of escaping this insanity.
But, I promise you, you do not need anything from this deranged person in order to be complete.
The only thing I want from the sociopath who abused me is some child support for my daughter. And should I decide to pursue child support, thankfully I’m not beholden to the sociopath’s whims to get it — there’s a government body that will force it from him (although the sociopath will almost certainly try to permanently skip the country to avoid paying child support for his daughter). Beyond that, the #sociopath has nothing I could ever want or need. .
As a grown woman who is committed to self-development, what could a compulsive-lying, irresponsible #sociopath who's caught up in #PeterPanSyndrome possibly have to offer me? Or you!!
I feel sad for the sociopath that he never became a full adult, & that he never will. And I feel so sorry for his current & future targets.
But.....it's not my problem.
How about you?
Is there something you are waiting for from the abuser?
Could you perhaps give that thing (an apology? approval? attention? love?) to yourself instead?
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