אחריות לילדים כן או לא?
בסופ"ש האחרון היה לי דיון סוער עם חברה מאוד טובה - לה יש 3 בנים - 13, 10, 7
לי יש שניים -
בן 13 בת 10
אצלי בבית יש לוח ובו חלוקה של שואב ומדיח, זה שבתמונה, ואם תגדילו תראו שיש שם גם אתגרים.
הם מפנים מהשולחן את הצלחות ומרוקנים את האוכל ושמים בכיור, מפנים מדיח ושואבים (בפינוק של דייסון) חייבת להודות שאני לא ממש ממש מקפידה אבל נצמדת.
היא מנגד, טוענת שבשום אופן הם לא צריכים להיות חלק מהסיבוב הזה, שהם לא אמורים לפנות מדיח או לשאוב באופן קבע כסוג של "מטלה"
זה מכביד ולא שייך לחלק מהגדילה שלהם.
בעד שיתוף אחריות או נגד, ומאיזה גיל?
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16 hours ago
3 months since our sweet baby was born. But it feels like she’s existed forever and I’ve always known her and loved her this much. 🐻🌙
6 hours ago
Such a sweet day celebrating our little munchkin🌵 thank you to everyone who came and made this day so special! A huge shout out to my parents- couldn’t have done it without you. Oliver loves you all so much🥰
3 days ago
When I became their mom I promised to love them. I love them through the easy, the happy and the good times. I love them most through the difficult and the seemingly unbearable... Julian took this in the middle of Savi having a moment. We get wild looks when she is having her tantrums + the way I deal with them but oh well, a little bit of kindness goes a long way. We’ve learned 10 times outta 10 showing compassion and understanding turns out better than showing any frustration or impatience we may feel. That’s just how it works in my family and I try really, really hard to stick to it 🤷🏽♀️ Besides, one day she’s going to be a mom and I’m gonna get to tell my grandkids all about those gray hairs she gave me (but I’ll thank her bc if you know me, you know I can’t wait til I have a full head of white hair) 😎👩🏽🦳🖤
Sick days call for extra snuggles with my favorite 3 year old, who used to be an amazing sleeper but is now waking up at night saying she’s scared of her bedroom! Has anyone else’s kiddo experienced this? 😭 Fingers crossed it is just a phase? 🤞🏼 Also, for those of you on the hunt for a new couch, our couch is 50% off! 🙀 We have 2 and I’m tempted to get a third! 🙈 http://liketk.it/2BZZo #liketkit @liketoknow.it #LTKbaby#LTKhome#LTKsalealert#LTKunder100#LTKunder50#LTKspring#LTKkids#LTKfamily
19 minutes ago
I was going to write a long caption about how intense it is being home with kids alone when your husband works away... but I don’t have time because I’m home alone with the kids and my husband is away 🤦🏼♀️
Shout out to all the single mums, dads, fifo wives, shift workers, and actually, anyone who has pushed out, had cut out, or taken on children.
46 minutes ago
So this is my mummy and she’s a mum of 5!
Now that we’re older she’s like my best friend and we’re mums together •
It’s so nice to be able to level up and share tips about our little loves and how to clothe them in love and kindness and how to be better mums and people 💕
Are you a mum and do the same with your mum? How many times did you say I’ll never do this or that when I’m a mum then you end up being the same or similar 🤣 - ‘I’ll never let my kids watch telly’ - is my favourite 🤪
My daughters, may you be fierce and steady.⠀⠀
May you be beautiful inside, kind and caring.⠀⠀
May you look for the good in every face and seek the truth of this world.⠀⠀
And if you stumble, may you rise with courage and grace.⠀⠀
My daughter, may you be ... unshakeable. ⠀⠀
Your Mama xx⠀⠀
@londonxboston via @noc_noc_wooden_toys
1 hour ago
To my son. Never forget that I love you, that life is filled with hard times and good times. Learn from everything you can. Be the man I know one day you’ll be. #lifebesideacrepresets .
1 hour ago
Happiness is a day at the beach with your sister ⛱👭🏼💗
1 hour ago
The power of words is that a life can be launched with as little as a single phrase, an uplifting word or an act of kindness. Think of the power we wield and the impact we can make if we become more intentional about encouraging our children. Our words are often the very things that help create future dreams. And sometimes those dreams are to be just like us.
1 hour ago
We had a lovely spontaneous day out at the beach yesterday, it was super busy as they had a busking festival going on. ⛱ Usually I like things to be planned but this week I'm trying to challenge my anxiety in preparation for a few things coming up that are massively out of my comfort zone. 🚈 Theres something about the sea that is just so calming.. Although it was super busy, the atmosphere at the beach was lovely and the girls were so well behaved. Alyssia did so well with asking for the toilet, It was our first proper day out since shes been fully trained and she did amazingly. 💪 Alyssia had a great time in the Arcade on the little rides and Isabelle had her first sand experience. 🙊 .
They were both slathered in sun cream but I stupidly didn't even think to put any on myself as I was quite covered up anyway, I've definetely paid the price as the back of my neck and top of my chest are both sunburnt and I spent the night suffering from what I think was a mild case of heat stroke. 😭 I had a throbbing headache, the shivers, too hot too cold, so weak I could barely hold myself up, so thirsty despite constantly sipping on water, I could hardly keep my eyes open due to the light and was curled up on the sofa with a sick bucket. I went to bed without dinner and have woken up this morning feeling slightly better though still a bit weak. 😫 .
I was supposed to amend/cancel my Asda order last night but completely forgot as I was feeling so unwell, so today we have 2 tins of baby milk, some loo roll & a few other random items that I needed in my basket to get it to £40 for a delivery 🙈 fail. .
So now I'm going to have to get some energy & go and get a food shop 🙄 moral of the story: always wear sun cream. 🤦🏼♀️ .
Happy Sunday everyone 💗
1 hour ago
Isabelles first Sand experience.. she also ate some 😫😂⛱ #8monthsold
Clouds won't stop us exploring ☁️
These pair are so cute together - I've never known such a tame rabbit 🐰It's been a great learning experience for Lovella being gentle and kind towards animals 💕
I feel most parents agree this is a good skill to teach their children, and as she gets older she will learn this same principle is why we don't eat animal products in our home 🏡 Because being kind and gentle towards animals is not in alignment with paying to have them mass bred and slaughtered to eat 🐷🐮🐥
Ребёнок – это вечный двигатель, а ещё дрыгатель, прыгатель, кусатель, обниматель и крепкоцелователь!
Вчера, когда муж пришел с работы и Яра побежала радостно его встречать, он сказал мне, что наконец-то понял - для чего нужны дети - их главное предназначение это давать папам ощущение своей нужности и знание, что кто-то тебя очень ждёт и рад твоему появлению дома! Этот момент в его дне самый лучший! И ради этого стоит возвращаться домой! И все это, конечно, очень трогательно и мило, но немного напрягает знание, что, увы, не я тот самый стимул для возвращения домой😂! Хотя... и так сойдёт👍